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Old Jun 23, 2019, 04:01 PM
Merope Merope is offline
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Thank you all.

You’re right, it doesn’t make a difference if it’s “allowed” or not allowed...I guess “needs” arise in a similar way to how feelings arise...they just happen.

I’m not looking for my T to gratify these needs or even meet them...the fact that he accepts and holds them is enough for me. I guess it’s like allowing yourself to feel vulnerable so that you reach a new level of genuine connection.
Thanks for this!
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