You do not post too much!!
I would tell you to post more, except that that would be telling you what to do, and that might be flagged as non-supportive!
I may not answer, but your posts make me think. I am not far from your way of thinking. One t used to tell me, i want you to call me before you do anything drastic. I was like, if i AM ABLE call you, then i wouldnt need to do anything drastic! What dont they get??