I had to comment on placing other people’s well being and happiness on the same level as yours or even above yours because you love them.

Yes it’s something we often do when we love: our family or a romantic partner. But you got to get to know the person first (if they aren’t family). Know if they are right people for you to place their well being above yours. And you can love people without taking them on and financially supporting them. You can love without doing all that. You shouldn’t put other people’s needs first if you barely know them and can’t even trust them 100%. You got to put yourself first golden