You were both driving drunk. It’s illegal and you are endangering others. You could ask bartender to call taxi for you. And you weren’t wearing a seatbelt? Why?

Your husband is clearly violent. The fact that he wasn’t beating you before doesn’t mean much. Stuff like that always escalated. Domestic violence doesn’t start right after the wedding. In addition he has account on sex site. And going by your previous posts he does heavy drugs and steals from you. Jeez. What a catch.

What I would do is make a police report and press charges, file for divorce, see a therapist, address excessive alcohol consumption and see my doctor to check for STDs. He isn’t on sex sites for intellectual discussions.

This whole dynamic is extremely unhealthy and volatile. No one should live like this. What do you need him for? You deserve better