Just remember the relationship you have with your therapist is NOT like that of others. They are not even an acquaintance. Please keep this in mind. It is not for them to develop a personal connection with you. Professionally, they are required to remain uninvolved. So don't expect to know anything personal about them. Please don't put them in the difficult position by expecting such or asking. Please. Please respect their job and professionalism. If they feel it appropriate then and only then will they divulge things about themselves.

About the only thing personal I know about my psychiatrist is that he has a young adult son who is headstrong and lacking in responsibility. It was worded simply as, 'If only he had a little of the motivation your son has' and we left it at that. It was more of a positive comment on my life than telling me about his own. The closest to having a personal relationship is that he has a painting of mine on his wall - and this he purchased.

The only thing I know about my therapist is that she practises an earth based approach to her spirituality. We have not discussed this but I know this based on objects I recognise as such placed about her room. I doubt most people would. The closest I have gotten personal with her is that I brought an eagle feather for inclusion amongst these objects in her office. I made it clear it was not a gift to her but to her other clients.

I know there will be many who disagree with me. But that line we do not cross of professionalism must start somewhere. For me it is strict. Others though may find it a softer line with some grey area. Regardless though, it is up to your mental healthcare professional to make that line clear about what they divulge and what they absolutely won't. It is your job to respect that. If they wish you to know anything they will tell you but it is your job to respect their professionalism, and not ask. We shouldn't no matter how much we might wish to, jeopardize their job.