You've never said, but do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend or are you married? They could provide huge insights for the doctors. I want to make this all go away for you so badly. You don't deserve to be shoved through all this. Your sister's boundaries, self-controls, and decencies are all so lacking and generally terrible. I wish I could help and I spent a long time thinking about this last night, but there's nothing I can do but send you good energy. So, that's what I'm doing.