So I texted my friend over the course of several days 3 short messages about 3 things I got upset about. First she made last minute plans to see her friend, while we already were out together and had plans for same time in the afternoon she decided to see her friend (and dump me).

Second she suggested we go to the mall instead of the park, when she also loves to be outdoors on the days it is nice to do so. She did this to save time so she could go see her friend when she agreed to.

and 3rd when i texted her the that I felt she had treated me unfairly she quickly apologized in one sentence and then immediately moved on to explaining what she had discussed with her friend she dumped me to see. It's like she doesn't even realize how insulting that is.

Then she texts me back that she doesn't know how to respond to 'all this' and she apologizes again without acknowledging, that she hurt my feelings or trying to reassure me she actually cares about my feelings.

The truth of the matter is I don't think she cares about my feelings at all. Not a bit. She never did. She is a fake friend.