I am a little different in regard to this matter. I will not ask my T personal questions as I would never want to find myself in a discussion about why it’s important for me to know this or that about her. I imagine that would make me feel awkward and uncomfortable for the most part. Instead, I just let my T disclose to me whatever information she chooses to and whenever she chooses to do so. I find it keeps my therapy neat and clean. I enjoy that part of my therapy. And I learn little things about my T here and there. That is absolutely priceless to me.