I can see how you’d be very confused about how his personality changed so drastically. Do you think it was the alcohol that fueled him, and have you not seen him that drunk before?

No, there is nothing any woman could do to ‘push’ a man to be that violent and threatening. I pushed my h about as much as anyone could and he never laid a hand on me and never threatened to kill me. I would also think that no amount of alcohol would cause a man to do that unless that violence was already inside him.

You say you’ve been married one year? Is this a new side of him that you’ve seen?