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Originally Posted by TheOutsider90
I've seen him drunk before quite a few times. And hes been mean drunk, but not violent. I definitely feel like he has an alcohol problem. I dont know if it was the alcohol mixed with the fact that he thought I was accusing him of cheating. I also wonder if he was using drugs and that made him violent. I'm not sure. We haven't talked yet. But when we do sit down to talk I'm telling him to tell me the truth about everything; the dating sites, drug use, no ********.
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What are you trying to accomplish? Do you want to repair the relationship? Are you trying to understand him better in order to do that? Are you trying to determine whether or not the relationship can be repaired?
Because the answers you've gotten so far have been a resounding "no," and "it isn't worth it," and "RUN GIRL, RUN!" Yet, your reaction since then has been to downplay it. You've responded directly to someone asking about his virtues, and few others.
So, where's your stance right now?