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Old Sep 07, 2003, 07:13 PM
f8ithful f8ithful is offline
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Hi. I'm new. I am very thankful to find a great forum who perhaps, i might find some people to help me out. So thank you all.

I know this guy who tells me that he cannot get rid of his Ex girlfriend.
I want to help him. But i don't know how.
He has dumped her already. But if he leaves her, she starts to do something stupid, like cutting her wrist and drinking herself continuously. She acts very mean to all girls that he talks to (even as friends) and even though they've broken up, she still acts as if he is still her boyfriend.
Now, he has tried ignoring her by turning his phone off. However, if she doesn't hear from him 30 mins or more, she does the same thing again (as in 'cutting her wrist' etc).
He has to talk nice to her on phone too, otherwise, the call will last a lot longer.
This has been going on for 3-4 months now.
This girl's doctor tells her to go to counselling service.
However, she skips the appointments.
I am feeling very sorry for my friend because it is like as if he has no more freedom and must inform her of everything that he has done.
Yes, and she follows him around, so she's 'always' with him (thankfully, they don't live together).
I should've posted it in the 'Relationship' Thread, however, i would like to know if there's any help on how to stop this girl from hurting herself.

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