Dear T,
Maybe I'm also bothered that you seemed to forget a few things today. Like when you asked me if we had a dog, when a few weeks ago we spent at least 15 minutes discussing the fact that we have no pets and were contemplating getting one. And I've told you the story of the dog we briefly adopted before. Or you asking me if I was still doing running, when we had a conversation about that a few weeks (maybe a month or two?) ago, how I realized it's not my thing, plus it's not like I ever ran, just walked, though you'd call it "running" and I'd just go with it sometimes. And I checked that I did in fact send the email to you about getting an appointment with backup T, when today you seemed like it was the first time you'd heard of it (I don't care that you didn't reply to the email, was just an FYI, but I figured you'd at least read it and recall it a few days later?). Perhaps you do just need a vacation...
Love,
LT