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Originally Posted by ~Christina
I’m glad your hip has improved so much.
Yeah you friend... I would have be pissed with her response. There are many ways to apologize and sometimes a “ I’m sorry” just isn’t enough. Her “ sorry “ then rambling into her work excuse talk is just bullshyt.
Had she really acknowledged that she hurt your feelings and how in the future she would be more considerate. That’s an actual apology.
Shame on her for treating you this way, you deserve much better.
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Thanks Christina for validating my feelings. I really appreciate your support through this tumult. She has not acknowledged that she hurt me or indicated that in the future she would act different. I have tried several different approaches and she seems unable or unwilling to say those words so I think it is over. I think it is very likely if I went out with her again, the same thing would happen. She has taught me that she can skip out on me at any time under any circumstances no matter the plans we had or how that affects me.
She is not gaslighting me claiming we never had plans to go to the park after lunch and the like but it feels like a fake apology and she is just doing it because she feels for some reason she has to rather than any heartfelt remorse or sorrow for how she hurt me.
My pdoc said she sounded like someone totally consumed with herself.