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Old Jun 26, 2019, 08:18 PM
BudFox BudFox is offline
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Originally Posted by Merope View Post

You’re right, it doesn’t make a difference if it’s “allowed” or not allowed...I guess “needs” arise in a similar way to how feelings arise...they just happen.
But from what i've seen, expression of certain needs is in fact not allowed in many cases. Step out of line, get fired. One of the running themes of this forum is fear of termination or other punishment. I see many people calibrating their behavior around what the therapist wants or needs or finds acceptable.. Whose therapy is it?
Thanks for this!
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