Yes, weekly sessions are usually the ideal but it is not an ideal world and we have to have our lives outside of T. Is there any regular pattern to your hours? I cannot see my T making this a deal breaker. If I knew my schedule in advance he would schedule me out even if it was not the same day/time each week. If he couldn’t do that we would just no do anything deep but have sessions when we could solely to maintain the relationship. He would also put me on his cancellation list. Again, none of it is the ideal but severing the connection because of it seems harsh to me.