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Originally Posted by SorryShaped
I haven't approached her because I don't want to lose her as a friend. I really want to get over the crush.
I know I'm doing wrong by crushing and I do feel terrible about it but it's also wonderful at the same time, though conflicted in several directions at once. Gah! Help?
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You did not plan to fall for a married woman so since you haven't told her how you feel and are trying to get over it--you haven't done anything wrong!!
Would she notice if you spent a lot less time with her? (How was it that you spend time with her?) You need to take a long, long break from her. Try to think up a legitimate excuse. You might never get over her but if you spend less time with her--it will become less intense. My POV is that when we like someone--it rarely changes. You will probably always like her so you are torturing yourself by not creating more space.