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LabRat27 · Jun 28, 2019 at 03:04 PM

Safe? Yes. Comfortable? Getting there.

If your therapist wasn't okay with talking about it and gentle and understanding that would be concerning. I'm glad you were able to talk with her about it and that it went well!

All the discomfort in my convos with my T about the topic comes from me. We've had some pretty unorthodox conversations, though they haven't been particularly explicit, mostly due to my discomfort.

Possible trigger:

I'll tell him I got flogged in a "BDSM sex dungeon" and explain the difference between a whip and a flogger but I won't say the word "orgasm" lol

He will though. He doesn't try to make me talk about it if I'm uncomfortable, but will very frankly use words like "orgasm" or "masturbate" if it comes up.