I wasn’t implying you did that, Eve, and I see the post looked like I was referring to you doing it, but I wasn’t. I hate when typing doesn’t come across with what you mean to say!

It’s that ‘tough love’ laying into someone that really bothers me because I’ve had to endure it often. I appreciate criticism in a more gentle way, especially when one has been abused from something else.

Wishing well to the OP