No, I was not in a mood to be reasoned with when I said it. He could exit, but he won’t. He doesn’t care what I need from him, what I have expressed time and again, what puts me into such a funk. Thank God the anxiety pills have stopped the crying and tail spin depression. I only get into an angry funk for a short while then move on with my day. This is all from the exact same, dysfunctional dynamic we have always had with his refusal to initiate sex. He now admits it has always been because he is thinking about his job. Now he has resigned from the job. He has a few days left. He said, yet again, he neglected me because he was thinking about the job...hence I used the toxic word ‘dare’. It’s too silly to keep being upset about over and over. It’s ridiculous and it puts me into severe depression. . I’m just so stuck and resigned from life.