My T has said he wants me to be able to talk to him about anything and he did specifically mention if sexual feelings towards him came up it was OK and we could talk about t. But, a couple sessions ago we were talking about why I married H and I said that there was a LOT of lust but that H was the only man I have ever been around where I wasn’t shameful and feeling dirty about my sexuality. It kinda threw T for a loop. I am not sure if it was because he just wasn’t expecting it, didn’t think I would be so comfortable with it or if it was marrying, in part, out of lust... but I don’t seem to have a problem talking to him about sex. It should get interesting though because I am super open minded about sex/sexuality and people tend to think of me as more shy, quiet, traditional, or lord help us all... pure just because I have that innocent look and did not have consensual relations with anyone until I was married.