Safe but not comfortable. We've rarely if ever directly discussed sex beyond a brief comment. With my first therapist, who was a woman, I could say almost anything because she was very open herself and would share about her own marriage. It felt pretty easy. With this current therapist, I feel like I am having to build myself up to talking about sex with him. It just feels awkward to tell him all these things when he's a guy and I'm a woman and we're about the same age. I'm not even sure what a conversation like that would look like, but I will find out eventually. It's a big issue for me and one of the reasons I'm in therapy.