Awh this makes my heart so very happy!! I am very encouraged that I could be able to give you what you needed here! Sometimes I don't ever know if my help is truly appreciated but since you have helped me big time in the past I have no choice but to return the favor and continue paying it forward! I am grateful for you also and more than happy that I can make a difference in hopefully shedding light in this situation!

This is another perfect opportunity to spell out your boundaries. Even a simple "NO" would be sufficient to counteract the lies you face, no matter if you are being told "It's all your fault" in real time or if your inner self-critic is just being rude. You have every right to protect your space and guard your heart! Life is too short to allow anything but positivity and validation come take hold! And you deserve it!

Let me know if I can do anything else!