There's no way to know what a therapist's life is really like beyond what they choose to share, no matter what details you may find online. Some people are happy to live alone. Some married people are miserable. I've wondered about my therapist's marriage because I saw his wife in person and I thought that they seemed like an odd match. But how would I know? Maybe things are totally different behind closed doors. My previous therapist was an older lady, single and childless, and she seemed pretty content with her life. She was always doing interesting things with her life.