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sujunew said:
I guess what I am most wondering is how you other women here cope with/deal with this?

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I dealt with this matter when it use to upset me - by mentally realizing it needed to be done for my own safety and well being........ and not that of the sick sexual abuse I had suffered thru as a child.

It also helped me to have a female doctor as my abusers were all males.