I know starting a divorce is very scary. You are confused, feeling ashamed and guilt. You are worried about literally everything. You know this needs to happen, but what about others. What will people think? What about kids? What about our families? What about...? I went through the same thing. I have only been separated a couple of months now and am still questioning my decision. But every time I think about gong back into that marriage, I get this inner panic. It reminds me that I made the right decision. Right after my ex and I separated, he came to me and kept throwing all these suggestions at me about how we could save the marriage. I started to cry. I realized I was not crying at the thought of losing him. Instead I was crying at the thought of staying stranded in that marriage any longer. I knew I made the right choice right then. You can do this! It is tough and stressful. But you are much stronger than you think!