Maybe what you need right now is supportive therapy that helps you build upon your strengths rather than critical therapy that tries to restructure your personality or whatever the hell criticism is supposed to do.

Could you tell your therapist that you need to feel competent in order to search for work and that that criticism is something that gets you down too much? It might be that she could switch strategies. Would help you build up a good relationship... And maybe help you get a job, too.

Could you send her a letter or something like that?