I really don't see how this even enters the equation. Some one chooses to be with you entirely on who you are - not where you are from. That sounds awfully shallow to me. How sad that someone would feel they had to. I would think it far better and something to be proud of to have extended one's horizons rather than remain narrow minded and stick to a hometown mentality. I feel sorry for such people. I think you need to explore why you feel this way; why you consider yourself not to fit in. Are you discussing this with a therapist yet?