No wonder you ended the relationship.

It sounds like if you let her back it will be more of the same, and you aren’t up for that.

MickeyCheeky makes a good point about emotional blackmail, which occurs when someone inflicts emotional pain if you don’t do what they want. Her guilting you is a form of that.

Trying to get her way by hurting you is not a loving or caring way of proceeding. No wonder you want to keep your distance!