Wth T I use to give her a gift card to her favorite restaurant whixh hapened to be mine as well. We had worked together for s few years before I did that. I never handed them to her in person. i sent them in a card. The first tume she said she shouldn't accept it but because she understood where it was coming from, she said she would and said thank you. I never had to explain

I have yet to give Emdr T anything other than a card. i did hand it to her in my appointment and she read it.