It's a great suggestion, but I am wary of amateur mediums on Meetups.com. I went to an energy workers group once, they worked on me, I came home and the very next day out of the blue I had severe depression. The woman who worked on me had been severely depressed, and therefore, transferred her energy to me. So I want to be careful where I go and with whom I work.

I will probably have to seek out a medium who does workshops. Someone on here did point me to someone... I have to dig it up.