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Jul 02, 2019 at 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
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I appreciate the advice and kind words. Things are starting to stable out a little. I have been trying to do little things for my boyfriend like getting him candy he likes. It makes me feel somewhat better. Unfortunately, the kids are young so it's difficult to let them live their lives. There is also a new girl who watches them in the evenings I just don't like so that has been difficult. She does a lot them I'm scared is going to undo my work. For example, I have been pushing them to be more independent and do things like pick up after themselves and get themselves dressed (to the best of their ability). This new girl just does EVERYTHING for them. It's hard to find the balance of what to tell the mom, while not sounding like i'm complaining. I don't have many people in my support system. My family isn't the best and my two friends are becoming increasingly nonreliable. One is actually moving a hour away which I can't decide if it is a good thing or a bad thing. She's moving in with someone she's known about 3 weeks. It makes me worry because she's one of my only friends. I love her and her one year old. I'm trying to work towards having the energy to do more in a day so that I don't fall into a hole. Thank you again.
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