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R takes her lead from me - if I bring something up, and I've asked her to help me stay with those feelings, she will.
Mostly, I cannot make eye contact with her when talking about difficult things...nor do I want to be 'alone' whilst talking about them. Lately, I have asked her to move so that she sits directly in front of me whilst I am talking. I still cannot look at her...if somebody looks at me too kindly, the dam will break.
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
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