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Originally Posted by willaneil
Unfortunately toxic people don’t know how to respect anyone. It’s not your fault at all. We just have to distance ourselves or even cut off all contact. I can’t take the rollercoaster ride anymore. He’s nice and complimentary one minute and then tearing me down the next. I then find myself tearing into him in return and he feeds off it. Time to take the power back.
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I’m glad I helped lighten this with a little humor!
Good for you. It sounds like you’ve got this and are doing the right thing for yourself.
You are right to realize he will try to ‘hoover’ you back in. Have you read about narcissism? I’m not implying anyone has any disorder, but it gives great insight into what you describe.
Best to you!