At the my differentiating I asked my one voice. Called him json to please relate to certain men by sharing his story of having been a convicted felon turned peer specialist . I asked him to relate to several youngs mens song aspiration to not allow it to turn into reality. In no circumstance should either of them judge since 1996 we've trained each other to not allow our demons to take us over. Not our parental side it has worked. The main thing I want them to know as urban males is to not be scared of the culture differences. Why because we're educated and got lucky in life. Don't allow a few bad apples whom you know since 1989 to deter you to mediocries . It has existed since the 80s remember!! REading into much into hate and jealousy does just this is why we have certain others whom protect us advance us in our weaknesses. Is how I'm coping today.