Thanks all.
I was just confused because I've seen many posts/articles about how it's important to have. I am glad it isn't really a big deal and it is possible to still do just fine without. What I have with t3 right now is working well.
I am very aware of my triggers and he knows the things I don't want from him. So hopefully I can continue through the end of the year and do ok without having to quit over this.
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