[QUOTE=theoretical;6555953]Quick question: Suppose you were feeling very sad, grieving a loss or something along those lines, and looking for emotional comfort. Not logical, problem solving support, but comfort. A shoulder to cry on, if you will. Would you rather have inauthentic comfort than none at all? Does it even matter how the other person responds, or are you simply wanting to be heard?

I am in the grieving process with losing my grandma . I do not want any comments about how I should handle that situation it has not been an easy one for me.
The things that I had to cope and deal with have been very tough and I do not want anyone to tell me how to handle this. i rather just let myself heal