Its like George used to say on Seinfeld about his worlds colliding - why should these worlds collide? He is WORKING. I understand, she did intrude on your world that one time. If that continues to happen, then it becomes more of a sneaking out problem, doesnt it? I guess i would wait until that happened. But if you are happy when you are together, and you are not getting other weird vibes that he is being untruthful?