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Old Jul 04, 2019, 07:37 PM
N6622 N6622 is offline
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So i lately i've been feeling like my best friend would rather hang out with her bf then me. Her and i rarely get to see eachother now because we both work so much but her and her bf see eachother everyday ( nothing wrong with that obviously ) why im bringing up the fact that we rarely get to see eachother but she sees him everyday is bc even when me and her plan to hangout she invites him which i dont get, i would get it if she hasnt seen him and she wants to hang with both of us bc she misses us both. But thats not the case. Today we were suppose to hangout just us two (made it clear if it could be just the two of us and she was fine with that) anyway i got off work and met her at tims to grab ice coffee but she told me we had to sit there for bit to wait for her bf. I was like bet, i didnt care cuz hes a cool dude still and he makes her happy so i like him as a friend and didnt mind. However when he came we decided to play a few rounds of uno cuz y not tht game is so fun 😂😂. Anyway we were playing and me and him started joking around and we made plan to cheat to make it funny when we win. She realized this, made a big deal and then she left and told me she didnt want to hang anymore, tht she just wanted go home. So i apologized and told her im sorry. I went home and an hour later she messages me apologizing, telling me shes loves me and all. But what upset me a lot is on her snap story she posted videos with her bf outside all happy right after she got mad at both her bf and i for no reason. Now i feel like she wasnt actually upset, she just made a big deal out of nothing so she could go hang out with him. I feel like shed rather go hang out with him then me and on days its only suppose to be us she gets angry for no reason so she could go hang out with him. On days we actually are alone she keeps messaging a lot which is so annoying to me but i dont want to be clingy so i never say anything. Like idk if its my insecurities or if this is just how it is now. Anyway idk what to do. Do i talk to her or am i just being clingy?
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