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Originally Posted by Calypso46
Hi Mopey,
I did not send the letter to my father. I used it when I spoke to him. They were sort of like speaking notes. I hope this helps!
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Yes, Calypso, thank you. Truly I was not trying to pry, I just wondered what you had decided to do.
I was in a situation myself where I composed such a letter and actually sent it, and I'm still not sure whether that was the best decision or not. A therapist I saw about the situation said that she often recommended that her clients struggling with this type of thing write the letter, then bring it to her, and they would decide together whether to send it or not. I'm not sure whether I made the right decision or not, I go back and forth. I hope what you did proved to be at least somewhat satisfactory to you. No getting to these people, sometimes...
And all of us, of course, trying to help MatBell in his/her painful situation.
