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Originally Posted by Mopey
Hvert, to me, this person (the mother) requires the activation of the Big Guns. Of course it would be hard, but probably the best thing would be to do whatever is required to KEEP HER OUT. Your husband's health is seriously impaired anyway. Her needs are not important in this situation, I feel.
Not a decision I'd like to make, myself, but there it is.  |
I feel bad that I expressed disagreement over his initial plan to bring out the Big Guns. Really disappointed in this violation. It has been about her, not him each time she has called. It was so awful to listen to the call this morning which was 100% about her plans to visit against his wishes and not at all about how he was feeling.
Even when I called to update her the day of the surgery, she was weird. She didn't ask how he was or for any details about his diagnosis. Instead, she told me that he'd said something flattering about me, and when I said it was sweet, she told me he'd never said it.
When I was younger, I didn't understand why people were secretive about health issues, but I sure get it now.