Definitely have a cake, if that's what you want. What flavour.
I have a friend, who got sober about 15 years ago, now, and she had the best 1 year sober party I've ever attended. It was in the summer, so her then fiance threw her a BBQ and then an ice cream sundae bar for desert. They had about 6 different flavours of ice cream, and tons of different toppings and you made your own sundae. It was excellent.
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"I danced in the morning when the world was begun. I danced in the moon and the stars and the sun". From my favourite hymn.
"If you see the wonder in a fairy tale, you can take the future even if you fail." Abba
