I'm so sorry that you're going through ALL of this, shyBoldGirl88 I agree with Rose76 and divine1966 and all the wise posters that he doesn't seem trustworthy. You may want to SERIOUSLY reconsider this relationship or at the very least go to couple counselling although honestly the problems is mostly with him, not you. I also agree with divine1966 about seeing a therapist for yourself if you keep falling for this kind of guy. Whathever you decide please take care of yourself and think of yourself and of what YOU need as well. You are important and you matter Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, shuBoldGirl88!