The problem is that I CAN'T talk to him. He wants to be LEFT ALONE for as long as he pleases. I am to only contact him if it is important and wait around for him to call while he's talking to this other girl 20 times a day, going places with her and refusing to even see that that might be an issue when you are in a relationship with someone else!!!! I would totally understand him wanting time to think about our relationship and make a decision if he was REALLY using the time for that. From what I can tell, he is using this "time apart" to run around 24/7 doing as he pleases and not even bothering to consider me or my feelings. If I try to talk to him about it he gets really pissed at me and basically threatens to end things right now. However I will point out that while this has been happening for the past month, he has wanted me sexually when I came around. It's like i'm good enough for sex, but if he has to compromise what HE wants and has to WORK on the relationship he's not interested.

Oh, and he'll be going to a conference in another state for a long weekend next month that SHE is going to as well. AND, he's 33 years old and she's 18!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's like he got a personality switch overnight. I keep thinking he'll wake up and be himself again but he's not.