I understand. I know it’s not about us here, I am just saying you can’t know anything by looking at little things. But I agree most certainly therapists don’t have perfect lives, no one has it perfect and who really knows what’s perfect. It’s so subjective. You seem to equate perfection with being married, having a family and big place and financial success but there are many single people living alone in tiny places in the middle of nowhere with no money and they find their lives to be perfect.