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Originally Posted by susannahsays
I wonder if he would have held the same judgement had you been a man. Maybe he would, but society does have such a double standard on this topic that it makes me wonder if he would have found a man having sex outside the confines of a committed and exclusive relationship anything to remark on.
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Yes, that is possible. Also because there was some subtle and unspoken but very detectable mutual attraction going on with that T and he is a straight man. Maybe he found it unpleasant to hear that I don't necessarily put all of my interests on one object of desire and do not expect that from others either. That T seemed quite open-minded in many other ways so I am not sure.