My first husband cheated on me. I felt every negative emotion under the sun. I of course blamed myself for a long time. I got myself into Therapy and started processing it, wasn’t easy.

The biggest thing I learned and accepted that I did nothing to cause him to cheat. He choose to be a sucky human and cheat instead of being a man and leave the relationship if he was that unhappy. I was dealing with having my Father battling cancer and I guess he thought I spent more time with him at the hospital.... he mentioned that once. Yes sucky human being.

He married her the day after our divorce was final. Our daughter was 6 and she started to refuse to go to his house because they fought all the time. So yeah I’ll admit I got a chuckle out of it.

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