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Originally Posted by theoretical
A couple of questions. Firstly, how old are you and your friend? Is this her first romance? People can get caught up in the romance when they first begin dating, especially when they're young and have never experienced it before. It's a rush of emotions. But that'll pass eventually, and hopefully they fall into something a little more stable.
Or at least, that's what I've heard. I've never experienced it for myself. 
Secondly, this post is kind of odd in light of your post in the New Member forum, and I'm trying to reconcile these two lines in particular.
Why does it matter so much to you? If it does matter, then what are you going to do about it? |
Im just as confused as you to be honest. You brought up a good point and it got me thinking. I realized that i do care about my loved ones, a lot actually and it would kill me to see them hurt or for me to hurt them in anyway. You made me realize that, however whats confusing is the fact whenever someone rants to me bout their feelings i'll always find myself not caring and not knowing how to respond so i'll pretend i care. For example someone told me their grandmother had passed and i had to make myself act concerned even though i knew i really did not give an ounce of care. Even with my best friend, i love her as if shes my sister but she'll always rant to me and i'll always just pretend. Idk if its cuz im always mostly drained or if i actually cant feel empathy. I really wanna know what wrong with me, thing is i dont think im insane because im aware of my "problems" yet everyone around me they'll notice odd things that i do and call me crazy or tell me im bipolar. So now i rlly wanna just know whats wrong with me. Lmao this took a turn. Btw both of us are 18, lots of people were asking bout our age. We talked it out tho, its all good with us now. At first she was angry but then she realized she was hurting me and she apologized. We had a huge deep talk, she understands where im coming from and i understand why shes been acting the way she has, were good so im glad some of ya'll convinced me to talk to her
