I'm so sorry you and your loved one are going through ALL of this, @vsw4 I agree with ALL the other wise posters. Just be near her and support her. Unfortunately she has every right to make her own decisions and you can't really force her to do otherwise. I'd say that your best bet is sto stay near him, make her understand that she's not alone and that you care about her and gradually make her understand that joining a cult may not be the best option for her and that it's unlikely that she will get the Love she's craving right now. Just be near her and support her. Seeing what this cult is about and going with her to one of these "reunions" may be helpful as well if you feel like it. I hope you and this person will be able to get otu of this situation! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, to her and to ALL of your family, vsw4!