My instinct is if you have the resources to find someone else, then listen to yourself. I don't know what kind of choices you have over picking a therapist as it sounds like you didn't have much choice with her. Even if she's competent and you could workout whatever was the communication style differences, something right now says 'no' and it's ok to listen to that no, for whatever reasons. You might find later that the no was because of something inside you and nothing to do with her. You might move on and never look back.
Just remember that for many, no therapy is better than bad therapy. If this doesn't feel right, there's no reason to try to make it fit, unless you don't have a choice due to your healthcare system.
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