This "man" is only bringing you down. Your life has not been very happy since you've met him. I get why you are trying to hold on...he is the one person in your life that you have left. But there is hope out there. There are good people out there, he drives them all away from you. 3 years is usually when the honeymoon is over and you start to see the real person. A person looking to cheat on you is unacceptable. Dont believe a word he says...he only talked to them for a week...yeah right. He is just trying to back peddle and save his butt. You do way more for him than most people would do. You owe him nothing. He was the main reason of you losing your house, your job, and your happiness. If his mom warns you about him...you should really heed her warning. You never know when he is going to snap.

I hope you are getting back on your feet. Is there somewhere you can go for protection? A womans shelter maybe or a church, can you see a therapist or a counselor or go to a group therapy? How about getting out there for a support system? Make new friends who understand your predicament. Good luck to you...I am always here if you need to talk.